Depression is more than just a feeling of sadness; it is a complex mental health condition that affects millions of people worldwide –– women, in particular. In recent years, there has been a significant effort to raise awareness about depression, reduce stigma, and provide support for those who are struggling. This blog post aims to shed light on the various aspects of depression, including its causes, symptoms, and treatment options, while also emphasizing the importance of building resilience and seeking help.

Kindred's offers a safe space for discussing all your mental health concerns. When you suspect that you may be experiencing symptoms of depression, it's important to ask for help, either with a psychologist or a psychiatrist.

Defining depression

Depression is a persistent feeling of sadness, hopelessness, and a lack of interest or pleasure in activities. It affects a person's thoughts, feelings, behavior, and overall well-being. Depression can vary in severity, from mild to severe, and can interfere with daily functioning and quality of life.

What are the risk factors of depression?

Depression can be caused by a combination of genetic, biological, environmental, and psychological factors. Some common factors that may contribute to depression include:


Individuals with a family history of depression are more likely to develop the condition themselves. Depression often has a genetic component. If individuals have close family members who have experienced depression, they are at a higher risk of developing the condition themselves. Certain genetic variations might make some people more susceptible to depression when exposed to environmental triggers.

Brain chemistry

Imbalances in certain chemicals in the brain, such as neurotransmitters like serotonin and dopamine, can contribute to depression. The brain communicates through neurotransmitters, which are chemicals that regulate mood, emotions, and behavior. Imbalances in neurotransmitters like serotonin, dopamine, and norepinephrine can disrupt the brain's normal functioning, leading to symptoms of depression. Low levels of serotonin, for instance, have long been linked to depression, and many antidepressant medications work by regulating these neurotransmitters.

Trauma and stress

Traumatic events, such as abuse, the loss of a loved one, or a major life change, can trigger depression. Chronic stress can also play a significant role. Experiencing traumatic events, such as physical or emotional abuse, the loss of a loved one, or a major life change like divorce, can trigger depression. Trauma alters brain function and can lead to persistent feelings of sadness and hopelessness. Chronic stress, whether from work, relationships, or financial struggles, can also contribute to the development of depression. Prolonged exposure to stress hormones like cortisol can impact brain structure and function, increasing vulnerability to depressive disorders.

Physical health conditions

Chronic illnesses, pain, and hormonal imbalances can increase the risk of developing depression. Pain, whether acute or chronic, can significantly impact mood and contribute to depressive symptoms. Hormonal imbalances, such as those occurring in thyroid disorders or during menopause, can also affect mood regulation and lead to depression.

Substance abuse

Substance abuse, including alcohol and drugs, can lead to or exacerbate depression. Substance abuse can disrupt brain chemistry, impair judgment, and create additional stressors in a person's life, all of which can contribute to the onset or worsening of depressive symptoms.

Recognizing the symptoms of depression

It's essential to recognize the symptoms of depression to seek help promptly. Some common signs and symptoms include:

Persistent sadness

Feeling sad, empty, or hopeless most of the time.

Individuals experiencing depression often endure a persistent state of sadness that pervades their daily lives. This emotional state can be overwhelming, lasting for weeks, months, or even years.

People with depression frequently feel an overwhelming sense of sadness, emptiness, or hopelessness. These emotions can be all-encompassing, making it difficult for them to see a way out of their despair.

Loss of interest

Losing interest or pleasure in activities once enjoyed, including hobbies and social interactions.

A hallmark symptom of depression is the loss of interest in activities that were once enjoyable. Hobbies, social interactions, and other activities that used to bring pleasure no longer hold the same appeal.

Changes in appetite and weight

Significant changes in appetite or weight, either loss or gain.

Depression often affects a person's appetite and weight. Some individuals may experience a significant decrease in appetite, leading to weight loss, while others may have an increased appetite, leading to weight gain. These changes are unrelated to diet or exercise.

Sleep disturbances

Insomnia or excessive sleeping, often accompanied by nightmares.

Sleep patterns are often disrupted in individuals with depression. Insomnia, where the person finds it difficult to fall asleep or stay asleep, is common. Conversely, some people may experience excessive sleeping, yet wake up feeling unrefreshed. Nightmares or disturbing dreams can also accompany these sleep disturbances.


Feeling tired and lacking energy, even after restful sleep.

Depression can lead to a constant feeling of tiredness and lack of energy. Even after getting a full night's sleep, individuals with depression may wake up feeling exhausted and find it challenging to carry out daily tasks.

Feelings of worthlessness or guilt

Persistent feelings of worthlessness, guilt, or self-blame.

Those suffering from depression frequently experience a profound sense of worthlessness, guilt, or self-blame. They may harshly criticize themselves and feel guilty about situations or events that are beyond their control.

Difficulty concentrating

Trouble focusing, making decisions, or remembering details.

Depression can impair cognitive function, making it difficult for individuals to concentrate, make decisions, or remember details. This can impact their work, academic performance, and overall ability to function effectively.

Physical symptoms

Unexplained aches and pains, headaches, or digestive problems without a clear physical cause.

Depression can manifest physically, leading to unexplained aches and pains, headaches, or digestive problems without any apparent physical cause. These symptoms are often a reflection of the individual's emotional turmoil and can further contribute to their overall sense of discomfort.

It is important to note that experiencing several of these symptoms persistently for a significant period (usually at least two weeks) may indicate clinical depression. If you or someone you know is struggling with these symptoms, it's crucial to seek help from a mental health professional.

How can we break the stigma against depression?

One of the significant barriers to seeking help for depression is the stigma attached to mental health issues. Stigma can lead to shame, isolation, and a reluctance to talk about one's struggles. Breaking the stigma surrounding depression involves open conversations, education, and empathy.


Educating the public about depression, its causes, and available treatments can dispel myths and misconceptions. 

Empathy and support

Offering understanding, empathy, and support to individuals experiencing depression can make a significant difference. Listening without judgment can create a safe space for them to express their feelings.

Language matters

Being mindful of the language used when talking about mental health can help reduce stigma. Using respectful and non-stigmatizing language fosters a more inclusive and understanding society.

Seeking help is very important

Here’s how to know when you should seek a psychologist or a psychiatrist. 



Talk therapy

Psychologists primarily provide talk therapy or counseling services. If you're dealing with emotional or psychological issues, relationship problems, stress, grief, or need guidance in coping with life challenges, a psychologist is a good choice.

Behavioral issues

Psychologists can help with behavioral issues such as anxiety disorders, phobias, obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD).

Coping strategies

If you're seeking coping strategies, stress management techniques, or ways to improve your overall well-being through therapy, a psychologist can assist you.

Personal development

Psychologists can help you work on personal development goals, self-esteem issues, and improving your overall life satisfaction.


Medication management

Psychiatrists are medical doctors who specialize in mental health. If your symptoms are severe, persistent, and significantly impact your daily functioning, a psychiatrist can assess your condition and prescribe medication if necessary. They are the appropriate professionals to consult if you think you may need medication for conditions such as depression, bipolar disorder, schizophrenia, or severe anxiety disorders.

Complex cases

Psychiatrists are equipped to handle complex cases involving mental health conditions that may require a combination of therapy and medication. They often work with individuals who have not responded well to therapy alone or have severe symptoms.

Medical evaluation

If there's a possibility that your symptoms might be due to an underlying medical condition, a psychiatrist can conduct a thorough evaluation and rule out medical causes before focusing on psychiatric treatments.

What other self-care treatments can I do?

Seeing a mental health professional is a very vital step in dealing with depression. Here are also some things that you can do alongside professional help:


Engaging in self-care activities, such as regular exercise, adequate sleep, healthy nutrition, and relaxation techniques, can improve overall well-being and resilience.

Social support

Maintaining strong social connections with friends, family, and support groups provides a sense of belonging and emotional support.

Mindfulness and meditation

Practicing mindfulness and meditation techniques can help manage stress, increase self-awareness, and improve emotional regulation.


Setting realistic goals

Setting achievable goals, both short-term and long-term, provides a sense of purpose and motivation, contributing to resilience.

If you or someone you know is experiencing symptoms of depression, it's crucial to seek help from a mental health professional. Treatment options may include therapy, medication, or a combination of both. Talk therapy provides a safe space to explore thoughts and emotions, learn coping skills, and develop strategies to manage depression.

Depression is a challenging and often overwhelming condition, but it is treatable. By understanding the causes, recognizing the symptoms, and breaking the stigma, we can create a supportive environment for individuals affected by depression. Let's continue to raise awareness, foster understanding, and provide the necessary resources to support those on their journey towards healing.

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Please note: Although Kindred is able to cater to mental health conditions, urgent cases such as suicidal ideation should be raised to a crisis hotline. We suggest that you contact the following numbers from the National Center For Mental Health: 

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    Last medically reviewed on October 6, 2023.